I recently finished reading a book about a story of an American mom, Pamela Druckerman, living in Paris. In her book, Bringing Up Bébé, she talks about the differences between American and French parenting and how French babies don’t have eating or sleeping problems.
This book saved my life. As a new mom with a baby that wouldn’t sleep, I was exhausted and at my wits end. The wisdom I learned from this book gave me the confidence to train my baby to sleep. It gave me my life back.
The differences between French and American parenting are so interesting. French parents can take their babies and toddlers to restaurants and enjoy a nice meal together whereas most American parents work hard entertaining their children at restaurants and end up leaving a huge tip because they feel bad that their kids created a huge mess that the waitstaff would then have to clean up. French babies sleep through the night at 2 months. Yes, 2 months! Miraculous… Most American books tell us to not even attempt sleep training until the baby is old enough, at the very least 4-6 months of age.
How can French babies not have any sleep problems when there are sooooooo many American parents struggling with baby sleep problems (including me)? With so many books dedicated to the subject, sleep consultants, and websites where moms connect to discuss their baby’s sleep problems in the U.S., it seemed impossible that an entire country could have babies that slept through the night with no problems at all. I was curious and I had to find out.
I was determined to uncover what I needed to do to train my baby to sleep through the night. I had been suffering for more than a year with sleep deprivation because my baby was still not sleeping through the night. Read more →
Bringing Up Bébé



